Nice build! The extra octal socket is a great idea, and should be a lot of fun to roll tubes.
If you wanted to leave a tube in both sockets, a SPDT switch could be used to switch power between pin 9 on the 9 pin socket and pin 8 on the octal driver socket (note - you may have pin 9 going to pin 7 on the octal socket, which is also OK).
If two tubes are plugged in but only one is heated, the dark tube will not draw any current and shouldn't cause you any problems.
-PB